June 24, 2009

Sinful indulgence!

So all of us think we own this planet, don't we?

"I was born with a purpose. I am striving to fulfill it and I must say I am doing quite well for myself. I have a house, great family and friends, I earn well, I deserve to enjoy. All the forces of nature are required to bow down to me and make my life easier. All I am asking is a little bit of sacrifice for all the pains I have gone through."

"I often hear a vegetarian diet is so much more healthier than a non vegetarian one. It also reduces the burden on the environment and in some way, some day will help overcome the problem of starvation for the entire population. What's more, I don't have to worry about eating unhealthy fatty food and consuming meat that heaven knows is injected with what kinds of antibiotics and hormones!! Add to that I will not have to carry the guilt of being cruel to fellow beings of our planet. Hmm, but what about my Omega3s and high protein rich food? Fish is considered to be one of the healthiest foods and I can't afford to let go of that. What do I do about my cravings for other meat as well? Am I not allowed to indulge once in a while, lean chicken or a medium rare steak?
Veggie or non veggie, what do I care? I order all that I want, eat what I want and the rest is anyway trashed!!"

There are debates and discussions going on and on about this kind of diet and that kind of diet. I am surprised no one is talking about a diet that is "non wasteful"! I see so much food getting wasted that I am appalled!

If we begin with homes, vegetables are stocked up, allowed to rot and finally trashed. Cooked food is sometimes simply too much to eat or sometimes forgotten to be refrigerated and so trashed! Children are indulged to such an extent that all the flavors in the world are tasted by a child like a connoisseur, you know, just a lick or a bite, and then trashed! Milk and meat expire as they have short shelf lives and find their ways to trash cans.

We attend parties, weddings and blah blah, every person I know takes more food on his/her plate than she/he can consume and then happily trashes it. In the first place, the grand spread is planned for way more than the number of guests invited and at the end of the day nobody knows what to do with the remaining food!

The food industry is so badly run that I believe due to poor transportation facilities, large lead times, shorter shelf lives, terrible stocking and storing facilities, umpteen middle men and lackadaisical customers, 40% of India's agricultural produce is trashed! I am sure the situation is no better or may be worse for meat and the same in the rest of the world as well.

This I believe is one area where individuals like you and me can make a difference. All it takes is being conscious to the waste around us and ensuring to minimize that waste. A bit of planning and a bit of disciplining will do the trick. Indulge to your heart's and stomach's content but don't indulge sinfully!





July 1, 2008

Obiter dictum!

Today, I encapsulate twenty-four years of my life's experiences. Without much ado, I dive right into the details. For me, it is all about emotions and my interpretations. Read on.

Fear - An accompaniment never sought. Can manifest in any kind of situation and once eliminated, enlivens the moment.

Cheerfulness - One without which life is quite meaningless!

Anger - As futile as futile can be...

Indifference - If you don't have it, you suffer! Tell me that there has not been a time in your life when you simply wished the person in front of you didn't exist :)

Exasperation - Don't ever let anyone make you experience this. Just be beyond exasperation :)

Agony - Gives an insight into you

Contentment - Experienced truly when you are the reason for joy of another

Boredom - Easily overcome

Pity - One I think, no one deserves. And no one should ever want!

Arrogance - Reeks and is repulsive

Passion - Elixir of life

Hope - Pulls you through the hardest times

Surprise - Best expressed by a child

Guilt - is obviously visible in the eyes!

Excitement - Felt when you are on the verge of something important

Disgust - Of course you know this! What you feel looking at the state of affairs in the world!!

Peacefulness - Imagine yor are on a virgin beach just by yourself and the wind blowing...

Trust - What you need most and foremost in any relationship

Depression - arrgghh...Let us not talk about this...

Envy - Reason to succeed, maybe , maybe not!

Frustration - If you are caught in the wrong job, you exactly know what this means ;)

Loneliness - Sometimes you need this...

Embarassment - What for?!!

Awe - What others feel about you on your death bed ;)

May 29, 2008

Loud whispers

A conditioned environ surrounds me
Air as cold as my skin cares to feel
The road beneath the wheels rolls over
Lost in thoughts I remain unaware
A spark of red flashes in my eye
The jerk springs me forward
A face, soaked in sand stares across
A young boy not more than fifteen
Earns his living carrying concrete
Sports a tee and a smile
The smile fades away
I see a longing in his eyes
He sees the cell phone plugged trendy guy walk along
It is like a mirror
Just that the reflection is years away
For a moment his eyes die
Not having the strength to see beyond
Deceiving the will that is so strong
The stranger brushes past knocking his shoulder
He holds himself, does not move an inch
The fluid called life engulfs him
The flash of light is back in his eyes
I move on
Carrying a dream that was long gone...

May 22, 2008

Serious hobbying!

For starters, the title is not intended to be an oxymoron. When we talk of a hobby, it is generally considered an activity done at leisure, savouring every moment of it. Getting down to doing it or even the thought of it is exhilarating. This in a way is a true expression of freedom. A sense of achievement, satisfaction and a feeling of bliss is experienced like probably how one did as a kid. And for the sake of the holy cow, one can converse on something else other than the weather, wedding or wayside nonsense! A quick disclaimer: I totally believe that the three mentioned topics of discussion are of utmost importance and need to be brought up, debated and what not but not with me, please!

A thought just crossed my mind that a serious hobbyist infact is bound to be a delightful conversationalist. Even if that particular hobby is not of great interest to you, who doesn't want free KT(knowledge transfer!)? If not anything, that could be your pseudoavatar:) or for all you know, your intro to a whole new world that you just had not thought of discovering!

The only point of contention here is why do employers look for employees with "diverse" interests (read: serious hobbyists) , feel elated about hiring them and then kill that diversity by forcing time pressures and turning them into zombies. Since I mentioned earlier, that a hobby is an expression of freedom, I say, fight for it, rebel and make sure you indulge in it whenever you want! Make the world go eat their words!

I have a hobby too. To tickle the spine of my companion! Or so to say, trying to be a humourist. Let me quickly recap how I got into this! When I was much younger, as a teenager, I read a lot about getting famous and making a mark in this world and the sort. Now, when I unintentionally weighed various famous personalities, there were two striking commonalities. (I am not sure how much of it is true, though!) Somehow, each of those slept very little (generally 4 to 5 hours a day?!) and always had a great sense of humour! Now it was , oops it IS impossible for me to give up on my eight (conservative figure there) hours of beauty (point of contention) sleep! So I thought, why not "develop", a great sense of humour! Tried hard but there were no shortcuts, I mean, no, get funny in 30 days books :(!! I started from scratch and am working my way up (people who have known me for a while, please say yes). I have to say it has been a totally fun experience. As a greenhorn, if I ever caught a funny remark, I would try and register it in my head and then I realised its futile! Total waste of precious years of my life! Hmph...but I didn't despair, the secret is once you get an insight into your companion's personality, you kind of get a hunch where his funny bone is and how you should tickle it! (I think I should scrap this line, feels like the beginning of the "get funny in 30 days" book) Never mind, who knows, my next serious hobby could be to become an authoress (does such a word exist?!) Oh I am a humourist so I can exercise the humour licence :) Happy smiling!!